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Home Comforts – The Art & Science of Keeping House

by Cheryl Mendelson, 1999

What an amazing book! Everything you could ever want to know about keeping a home in 837 pages! She gives instructions on EVERYTHING – cleaning, what to do in what order and with what products, the actual chemistry behind cleaning products, how to set a table, stock a kitchen, clean anything and everything. She instructs us what to clean daily, weekly, monthly, and seasonally. She talks about fabrics and sheets and comforters and rugs and carpets. She talks about keepsakes, documents to keep and for how long, inventories, insurance, fire safety, general safety in the home, pets, how to shop for meals, how long to keep different types of food, home-made cleaners, a list of basic cleaners, etc. What a complete and thorough book! After reading this book (and I didn’t read every page), I bought a bottle of Fabuloso which is an all purpose cleaner, and stopped using ammonia. She also includes several pages of home-made cleaners, the most basic of which is 3/4 cup of bleach, 1 gallon of warm water, 1 tablespoon of powdered laundry detergent. Somewhere in this book, I read about Fabuloso, vinegar, and water as a good all purpose cleaner. I can’t find it in the book but I mixed up a spray bottle of it and am starting to use it to clean the bathroom, etc. Fabulous book!

Lies My Teacher Told Me

by James W. Loewen, 2018

Eye-opening book about the sorry state of American History textbooks in high schools. This was one of our Old Town Library Book Club selections for 2019-2020. He provides the truth about Woodrow Wilson (extremely racist), Helen Keller (ardent socialist), Christopher Columbus (extreme brutality to the natives), the first Thanksgiving, how racism is invisible in the history books, how anti-racism is invisible in the history books, how the history books completely overlook the Vietnam War, how they don’t cover the recent past, and why history is taught this way.

Here are the chapter titles:

Gulliver’s Travels

by Jonathan Swift, 1726

What a strange book! I didn’t like it! It is about a LOT more than just his journey to Lilliput. In fact, that is only a short portion at the very beginning. He ends up going to many other places – a land of giants, another place governed by a floating island, and a land that is ruled and led by horses, the Houyhnhnms, with whom he falls in love, but their land is also populated by a despicable human-like race called the Yahoos. He so despised these Yahoos, and they were so much like humans, that when he returned to England, it took him 5 years to even tolerate his wife and children: “At the time of this writing it is five years since my last return to England: during the first year I could not endure my wife or children in my presence, the very smell of them was intolerable, much less could I suffer them to eat in the same room.” Wow!

The Tennis Partner

by Abraham Verghese, 1998

Tragic true story by the author of ‘Cutting for Stone.’ He tells about his move to El Paso, Texas, to teach internal medicine at Texas Tech. He meets David Smith, a medical student who was a former tennis pro. They develop a deep friendship via the tennis court. Abraham is an avid, obsessed tennis player. David is the perfect tennis partner. Their tennis matches are what keeps Abraham afloat during the unraveling of his marriage and his moving out of the home he shares with her and his precious 2 sons. Unfortunately, David is a recovering cocaine addict, an “IVDA,” (intravenous drug abuser) and he falls back into using twice and the second time is his undoing – he is holed out in a motel room and the police come knocking on the door (called by Abraham and Emily to get him into detox) but David takes his own life with a shotgun in the mouth. Tragic, dark, wasteland of drug abuse. Very scary.

A Christmas Carol

by Charles Dickens, 1843

Loved reading this after enjoying the movie with George C. Scott every year for many, many years! I was surprised at how closely the movie follows the book, in most places word-for-word. I like the way he describes the ghosts better in the book than the way they are portrayed in the movie. There are only a few scenes in the book that were not in the movie, all of them with the Ghost of Christmas Present, called the second Spirit in the book: They visited the home of an old miner and his family, they visited two men working in a lighthouse, and many street scenes and shop scenes where people are festive and happy with the Christmas spirit.

CSU’s Sense of Place, A Campus History of Colorado’s Land-Grant University

by James E. Hansen II, Gordon A. Hazard, Linda M. Meyer, 2018

Very complete book giving pictures and history of EVERY building and even the places of Colorado State University. Especially liked the pictures of the first buildings in the late 1800s (the Pioneer Era from 1870-1909). They divided it into The Pioneer Era (1870-1909), Charles A. Lory Era (1909-1940), William E. Morgan Era (1949-1969), Modern University Era (1969-1990), and Digital Era (1990-2017). I especially liked:

1. Jesse Harris Spring (1901-present): stone fountain that is still standing to the north of Spruce Hall (on 100 block of Old Main Drive), donated by Jesse Harris, former Fort Collins mayor and State Board of Agriculture member. The water was piped from Bailey’s Spring, located on land in the foothills. “Many local citizens distrusted the city’s tap water and believed that the spring had medicinal qualities. They filled jugs at the Jesse Harris Spring to take home for drinking. The fountain proved its worth when an outbreak of typhoid was traced to the city supply, and the high sulfur content kept the spring water safe to drink…By 1921, the old iron pipes had rusted. The cost of pipe replacement, and the fact that the spring was running dry, led the administration to quietly decide that the Jesse Harris Spring should be connected to the city water tap…”

2. Every tennis court ever located at CSU. The first were three dirt courts in 1908. The courts Wayne played on while in college existed from 1961 until 2009; eight courts directly east of what would become Moby Arena. The current 12 courts located on Research Boulevard cost $2 million and opened in 2010. It is considered “one of the nation’s finest college facilities.”

3. Quonset huts that were used as housing for veterans from 1946-1961. Carla lived in one of these when she was a baby.

4. The dairy farm was originally the Hahn Farm which I think was located near West Prospect and South Shields Street, then moved in 1981 to north of the Veterinary Teaching Hospital, but closed in 1989 due to financial losses and complaints of odors.

5. Hughes Stadium: Pat Stryker gave $15 million towards it in 2003 to honor both Albert Yates and Sonny Lubick. Hughes Stadium existed from 1968 to 2017, the last playing season was 2016. The book was published before it was decided to make Hughes Stadium area into a residential development.

6. Includes pictures of Old Main, including after the fire on Friday, May 8, 1970. Someone started it in protest of the Vietnam War. The picture shows all that was left of this beautiful building was the brick and stone shell. It’s a haunting picture. What a terrible loss.

7. The new stadium – the most controversial facility ever built on campus. Funding fell short but even so, the Board of Governors authorized $239 million to build the structure, which opened in fall of 2017.

8. The Mountain Campus, 1914-present: originally named after “George W. Pingree (a Civil War veteran and participant in the infamous Sand Creek Massacre), who ran a logging camp there from 1868 to 1870 to supply railroad ties for the Union Pacific Railroad.”

An excellent book – I love the old pictures from back in the 1870s to early 1900s.

Nomadland

by Jessica Bruder, 2017

Eye-opening book about a subculture of aging Americans living in RVs, vans, or cars and traveling around the country. Gretchen recommended this book. These Americans lost homes in the 2008 Great Recession, went through messy divorces, had physical injuries or illnesses, or a combination of factors that made them unable to afford rent along with everything else. They purchase used vans, RVs, or even cars and begin living in them. They work in terribly difficult, low-paying seasonal jobs like Amazon warehouses (“workampers”), the sugar beet harvest, campground hosts, tourist traps, and amusement parks. She focuses on one particular person, Linda May, and tells this most interesting and depressing of stories through her. Things I learned: You can clean foggy headlamps with insect repellent and an old t-shirt. Earthships are intriguing! Linda May dreams of building one. She finally purchases a cheap piece of ground near Douglas, Arizona, and will build one. Black people are not among these people; is it racism among these nomads? Or more than likely, black people know they would be fined, jailed, or possibly worse if police found them to be stealth camping in towns and cities, whereas white people are simply checked on and sometimes helped.

The Common Good

by Robert B. Reich, 2018

Adam saw this book over at Ben’s house so I got it from the library. Mom read it first and said, “This was an excellent read. I sense a slipping away of everyone in the U.S.A. focusing on ‘me!’ and self only.” It’s true and he gives three reasons for this: The whatever-it-takes-to-win politics (mainly started by Nixon and the Watergate scandal), whatever-it-takes-to-maximize profits (businesses used to care about their employees, their communities, their customers, and now it’s screw them, just make money. He uses Michael Milken and Jack Welch as examples of this ‘whatever-it-takes-to-maximize profits’ attitude). And the whatever-it-takes to rig the economy is the third reason we’ve lost our sense of the common good. He attributes this to Lewis Powell’s memo, Tony Coelho’s bargain, and the Wall Street bailout.

He says this is not a book about Trump. Trump is not the cause; he is a consequence of the loss of our sense of the common good. He lists and describes 52 incidents that have occurred since the mid-1960s that showcase the decline. Here is the one that gets me the most:

2016 Price-gouging by Mylan Pharmaceuticals. The firm ratchets up the price of its EpiPen emergency injection kit, containing only about $1 worth of the drug epinephrine, to $609 a box. Mylan has an effective monopoly on the lifesaving product. The company’s revenue skyrockets to $11 billion. In 2016, Robert Coury, Mylan’s chairman, receives compensation of $98 million (including vesting of prior stock options, $160 million).

from page 62 in the chapter entitled, “Exploitation”

The Stationery Shop

by Marjan Kamali, 2019

Recommended by Christie, this is a sweet book about two young lovers in 1953 Tehran, Iran. They meet in the Stationery Shop, a shop filled with beautiful pens, papers, journals, books, etc. They decide to marry, despite the young man’s mother’s objections, and arrange to meet in the square at a certain time. The young lady (Roya) makes her way through a political mob to the place they had agreed to meet, but the young man (Bahman) never shows up. A letter from him received a few days later says his love was all a mistake and he is marrying someone else, the woman his mother wants him to marry.

The Pilgrim’s Progress

by John Bunyan, Part I-1678, Part II-1684

Lora Lee told me about this book and the movie. The book has never been out of print and, second to the Bible, is the most popular book in the world. The writing style is Old English, of course, since it was written 350 years ago. At first it was hard to understand, but once you get used to it, it is easier. The story is about Christian, a man who leaves his City of Destruction, with a heavy burden on his back, to make his way to the Celestial City. Along the way, he faces all kinds of dangerous pitfalls: Obstinate, Pliable, the Slough of Despond, Worldly Wiseman, Sloth, Presumption, Formalist, Hypocrisy, Beezlebub Castle, Hill Difficulty, the lions, Bloody-Man, Maul, Slay-good, the valley of humiliation and death in which he has a battle with Apollyon; Talkative, the evil town of Vanity Fair in which his friend, Faithful, is given a mock trial and wrongly convicted by Envy, Superstition, and Pickthank and then burned at the stake; Giant Despair, Doubting Castle, Ignorance, Mistrust, Timorous, Turn-away, and Atheist just to name a few of the dangers and pitfalls that tried to turn him back. He also had to leave behind his wife and four sons because they refused to believe.

The Soul of an Octopus

by Sy Montgomery, 2015

Who would have thought an octopus had a soul? But after reading this book, you can’t help but believe it! How sweet and precious this story is! She spends most of the book with octopuses in the New England Aquarium, and with the people who work and volunteer there. Through her great story-telling, I came to know and love the octopuses she describes: Athena, Octavia, Kali, and then Karma. She does learn to scuba-dive and takes two trips to find octopuses in the wild: First to Cozumel and then to Moorea. Loved this book! It was sweet and delightful. Danette recommended it to me. Sy Montgomery is the author of The Good, Good Pig.

Believe Me

The Evangelical Road to Donald Trump

by John Fea, 2018

Excellent book by an Evangelical who is an American history professor and chair of the history department at Messiah College in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania. He dedicates the book, “To the 19 percent.” He seeks to explain how 81% of evangelical Christians voted for Donald Trump. He starts with the politics of fear: First, Ted Cruz and Marco Rubio played the politics of fear in their campaigns, and it worked so well, Donald Trump was seen as the only one who was strong enough to save them from the fear of rapist, drug-dealing illegal immigrants; Muslims coming to murder us; evil Liberals taking over our country.

Everybody Always

by Bob Goff, 2018

Al H. recommended this book. Redeemer Lutheran was reading it. It’s about loving everyone always, even your most despised enemies. It’s full of stories about the creative ways in which he has loved others. There’s a chapter about not telling people about the good you have done because you’ve done it to Jesus so He already knows, but then this book is full of stories about the good he’s done. He is very funny, but I didn’t like him. (So much for loving everybody always!) However, the last few chapters were about him going after a witch doctor in Uganda and being the first one to get one convicted and sent to prison. Then, he adopted the little boy the witch doctor almost killed, but even more, he went and visited the witch doctor in the horrible prison in Uganda. The witch doctor wanted forgiveness and came to Christ, and Bob Goff says they both came closer to Christ through this. He has since set up schools for the witch doctors and more and more are coming to Christ. That is simply wonderful! The colorful splotches on the cover of the book are actually the fingerprints of some of these witch doctors.

He’s from San Diego, extremely wealthy, was a lawyer and a diplomat to Uganda. He loves his wife, Sweet Maria, and his children, one of whom is named Adam and is quite the adventurer; sky diving, flying, motorcycling. His first book is Love Does, and he has a charitable organization called lovedoes.org. The one thing that stands out is that Jesus did call us to love our enemies, and that is not easy, but beautiful things happen when you do.

The Emperor of All Maladies, A Biography of Cancer

by Siddhartha Mukherjee, M.D., 2010

Fantastic book about the history of cancer. The hundreds of years of unnecessary, radical mastectomies, and the evilness of Big Tobacco stand out. Also, the futility of trying to cure cancer. There are only a few cancers for which we’ve discovered what might be termed cures: CML, Hodgkin’s, breast cancer which is positive for estrogen receptor and can be treated with tamoxifen, and/or Her-2 amplified and can be treated with Herceptin.

Here are some quotes, this first from the chapters on how smoking causes lung cancer: “It is difficult for me to convey the range and depth of devastation that I witnessed in the cancer wards that could be directly attributed to cigarette smoking….It remains an astonishing, disturbing fact that in America–a nation where nearly every new drug is subjected to rigorous scrutiny as a potential carcinogen, and even the bare hint of a substance’s link to cancer ignites a firestorm of public hysteria and media anxiety–one of the most potent and common carcinogens known to humans can be freely bought and sold at every corner store for a few dollars.”

Akiane, her life, her art, her poetry

by Akiane and Foreli Kramarik, 2006

Short biography of Akiane, the girl who painted the picture of Jesus that the little boy from Heaven Is for Real identified as the Jesus he saw in heaven. This book tells the story of her life up to age 10 and includes her poetry and her paintings. I find the paintings haunting and dark, and the poetry is incomprehensible. However, she says something about one of her paintings, the one of Eve, that is incredibly insightful: “The knowledge of good and evil is simply too much for a human to understand and experience, and now Eve is looking up to God for forgiveness and help.” Same thing that Wayne said about humans and the fall – we are not equipped to deal with the knowledge of evil. Also, although she never mentions the Bible in this book, she does speak God’s will for us – to love Him and to love others. She also has painted pictures of a young Asian girl, about 2 years old, and another one of two African babies, who were abandoned and left to die but who were adopted and cared for and became healthy. She has a heart for abandoned children. She says, “It is because of our selfishness that they suffer and die.”

The Hate U Give

by Angie Thomas, 2017

This book takes you into the world of 16-year-old Starr; I hated the world but fell in love with her and her precious family. They live in the ghetto and Starr witnesses her childhood best friend, Khalil, get shot and killed by a white cop. She has brothers (Seven and Sekani), Dad (Maverick – former gang member and drug dealer), Mom (a nurse and the best mom ever), Uncle Carlos (a cop), and Chris (her rich, white boyfriend). Starr lives in two worlds; the world of her childhood which is the ghetto, drug dealers, gang members, violence, but a beloved family that has risen above all of that; and the rich, mostly white world where she attends high school. When the white cop kills her childhood friend, the two worlds collide. Starr eventually chooses to speak and tell exactly what happened to detectives, the media, and a grand jury. The white cop was not charged with murder. Riots and violence erupt. We understand the rage. Excellent book!

Hiding in the Light

By Rifqa Bary, 2015

True story about a young Muslim girl who converts to Christianity and has to run away from home for her life and safety. This book demonstrates many things but to me, it mainly shows how we Americans take for granted our religious freedom; we are free to worship who we want, when we want, where we want. She literally faced death from her earthly father and the Muslim leaders for becoming a Christian. She had to run for her life when she was 16 years old. Many of her friends and the officials in America had a hard time believing her; they thought she was just being an over-dramatic teenager. 

Originally from Sri Lanka, her strict Muslim family moves to America shortly after she is sexually abused at age 7 or 8 by an uncle in Sri Lanka. (The shame was hers, just as an injury leaving her blind in one eye caused when her brother threw an airplane at her is also her shame.) She encounters the One, True God – and the all-encompassing love of Jesus – through an American friend named Angela, who happens to be South Korean. The contrast between the love she feels from this God and His followers with the abuse and hatefulness of the followers of Islam, including her mother and older brother but especially her father, is astounding. She is sold-out for Jesus–heart, soul, and mind. She loves Him and His Word. When her family finds out she has converted to Christianity, they threaten to send her back to Sri Lanka where the penalty for conversion to Christianity is death. Her father is on his way home from a business trip. It is a race against the clock for her to figure out where to go before he gets home. She runs away with the help of the Holy Spirit through Christian friends, endures long drawn-out legal battles that take her through two states (Ohio, Florida, and back to Ohio), juvenile detention center, courtroom after courtroom, and many foster families. She eventually turns 18 and is free although she is still in hiding for her protection. She also gets a rare form of uterine cancer and is told she has a year to live, but is miraculously cured after surgery and several months of chemotherapy that she decides midway through to stop. Here are some quotes at the very beginning of the book:

To my precious baby brother, Mohamed Rajaa Bary. 

I can only imagine the unanswered questions that may plague you. Why did the big sister you adore leave you and never come home again? My hope is that this book is a long letter explaining why. 

Although you may never understand my answer, my prayer is that the words bound within these pages allow your heart to heal. My prayer is that one day you will forgive me for the pain I have caused you. I left not because I did not love you enough. I left because I encountered a God who was worthy of forsaking all . . . even the most prized little man in my life.

If only you could peer through my dreams and see how I ache to hold you in my arms like I did so many years ago . . .but this time I never let you go.

Author’s Note:

“In 2009-2010 my story broke in national and international media. As often happens, many of the news reports centered on speculation and untruths. This book fulfills my desire to give an accurate account of my personal experiences within my family and community. Please understand it is not my intention to malign Muslims or Islam.

Though the story contained in these pages is true, I have changed the names of many individuals for reasons of privacy and safety.”

Boys in The Trees, A Memoir

by Carly Simon, 2015

Carly started out life as a rich girl in NYC. Her dad was Dick Simon, founder of publishing giant Simon & Schuster. She was their third daughter and they were hoping for a boy to name “Carl” so they added a “y” and that’s how she became Carly. Music was a part of the family’s day-to-day life. They sang a lot and her father played the piano for hours every evening. Carly started to stutter when she was a young girl. When she couldn’t get the words out, her mom told her to sing them. That helped her a lot. Her stutter has been a lifelong problem and she never knows when it will happen; that is why she doesn’t do many shows or interviews. She loves men, was quite the flirt, but her heart belonged especially to James Taylor, although from this book it sounds like he was a junkie and really kind of weird.

Fortunate Son

The Autobiography of Lewis B. Puller, Jr., 1991

In-depth memoir by a Vietnam veteran who lost both legs and most of his hands after tripping a booby trap running from enemy soldiers after his gun jammed. He is the son of a decorated Marine General, a good father but such a decorated war hero that he felt he could never live up to him. He couldn’t help it that his career as a Marine lieutenant started with the Vietnam War.

Eleanor Oliphant is completely fine

by Gail Honeyman, 2017

A most-interesting novel! It’s about a 30-year old girl, living a very lonely life in Glasgow. She has a boring office job that pays the bills, but her co-workers don’t like her and often gossip about her. She buys vodka every Friday and stays drunk through the weekend. She has a scar on one side of her face caused by a fire, that we learn was set by her mother (Mummy). Her Mummy calls her every Wednesday and is completely evil and cruel to her. Her life begins to change when Raymond, the IT guy who fixed her computer at work, befriends her. They see a man collapse on the sidewalk and Raymond assists him but also pulls Eleanor in to help. The man (Sammy) ends up being the nicest person and between the two of them (Raymond and Sammy), they show Eleanor what it means to be loved.