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For Love of Country: Leave the Democrat Party Behind

by Tulsi Gabbard, 2024

Adam asked me to read this book. He said it would make me mad. I should have asked him why he thought it would make me mad. I think the thing that makes him mad is how when Tulsi was running for President, and had completed her first debate for the Democrats, something happened with Google so people could not find anything about her when they looked her up. She thinks the “Democrat elite” were behind this. So, now she has aligned herself with a man who is the antithesis of democracy, who is doing everything he can to end democracy in America; ignoring the rule of law and the constitution, not caring about the American people at all, befriending dictators, causing chaos and destruction and hurting the people of America.

Trump and the Republican Congress have decided to punish “sanctuary cities.” They convened a hearing and the Mayor of Denver, Mike Johnston, was called to testify. Here is what he said to them:

“This committee convened this hearing on the critical topic of immigration. I want to tell you Denver’s story. When I became mayor 20 months ago, Denver was already receiving buses of immigrants with little to no notice or coordination. At one point we were receiving 10 to 11 buses a day, dropping off as many as 300 people, mostly women and children, in 10 degree weather, with only sandals and a t-shirt, leaving them in danger of freezing to death on our streets. All told, 42000 people arrived in Denver over 18 months, the largest per capita influx of any city in America. We are each entitled to our own opinion about what should happen at the border. But that was not the question facing Denver. The question Denver faced was, “what will you do with a mom and two kids dropped on the streets of our city with no warm clothes, no food, and no place to stay?” As mayor I have to protect the health and safety of everyone in our city. As a man of faith I have a moral obligation to care for those in need. As Scripture says, “For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat; I was thirsty, you gave me something to drink; I was a stranger and you invited me in.” So that’s what we did. In Denver we believe our problems are solvable and we are the ones to solve them. So we went to work. When we started we had the largest encampment in Denver history with more than 200 migrant families living in freezing temperatures. So we opened 8 different city shelters, housing 5000 people. City employees volunteered to take extra shifts and Denver residents stepped up: Making meals, donating clothes, furniture, school supplies. Some even welcomed families into their own homes. We helped 8700 eligible individuals apply for work authorization so they could put food on their own table, pay their own rent, and reduce the strain on public resources. As a result a year later there is not a single migrant encampment left in the city. We have closed all of our shelters. We have connected people to jobs and housing and the city’s immigrant support budget has dropped by nearly 90%.

“And in the midst of this, migrants did not bring a wave of crime to Denver. In fact, crime went down: Homicides dropped 17%, shooting victims dropped 24%, auto theft down 29%. America is not just a place. It’s a belief. Some people are born into it, some fight their whole life to get to it. It’s a belief that all are created equal.”

The fact is, undocumented immigrants by far hard-working, responsible, assets to our communities. “In 2022, undocumented immigrants paid a combined $96.7 billion in federal, state, and local taxes, with $59.4 billion going to the federal government and $37.3 billion to state and local governments.” Trump tells blatant lies about violent immigrants eating pets in Springfield, when in actuality, they are improving the local economy, buying and fixing up derelict houses, paying taxes, supporting businesses, working hard. Trump is the one who is ruining our country by telling lies about these people and causing fear, hatred, and division.

She talks about the way the US government imprisoned Japanese Americans at the start of our involvement in WWII. This action, in hindsight, has been uniformly denounced by all, but it reflected the will of the average American – we were scared to death of the Japanese after they attacked us and we didn’t trust any Japanese. She talks about the Patriot Act, which was enacted by Bush after 9/11. We needed to know what was going on so we wouldn’t get attacked like that again. Now, however, Elon Musk and his DOGE employees are spying on Americans — for what reason? They have access to databases that store deeply personal information like medical treatments, therapy notes, bankruptcy info, and all sorts of financial data. Why? Elon Musk is not an elected person – why is he being allowed to shut down government offices, fire people, access personal data, withhold funding that Congress has previously approved – all without anyone’s approval or authorization except for President Trump.

Here is what she writes in almost every chapter: “Those who wake up every day driven by a selfish desire for power don’t care about the truth, and they have no use for the Constitution. In fact, they see it as an obstacle standing in their way that must be undermined, overcome, or cast aside.”

Trump is trying to undermine the Constitution in so many ways: change voting rights written into the Constitution in order to eliminate possible votes against him; he has said there are methods for him to be able to seek a third term, which is clearly against the Constitution; he has committed crimes and treason and has managed to avoid any punishment, mostly by getting himself elected again. He is bent on revenge and seeks retribution through lawsuits and financial harm and firing people and removing security protocols against anyone who has ever done him wrong. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” Trump is the opposite of love. He is hate personified and he feeds the hate and division that this country’s now lives inside the people of this country. He pardoned all of the rioters that stormed the capital, believing his lie that the 2020 election was rigged. Numerous REPUBLICANs investigated the 2020 election and found no widespread fraud. Trump repeats lies over and over to try and fool people into believing what he says is true.

Tulsi is a young woman of mixed race (Samoan father, white mother). Her dad experienced the racism of the south, the ugliness of it. Somehow, she has come to believe that the Democrats are the ones who are racist. They point out the truth of America – there is racism in America like no other country. White people have WHITE PRIVILEGE in America. Ever since a few years after the Civil War, everything in the USA – banking, housing, education, veterans benefits, voting, everything has been designed to keep black people from accumulating anything, kept them from getting a foothold anywhere; have kept them down. And we have turned a blind eye to it and let it continue for far too long. Little black boys cannot play outside without drawing suspicion. Black people cannot walk into any store without drawing suspicion. Black people cannot walk in a white neighborhood without drawing suspicion; some have even been murdered. These horrendous racist attitudes need to be exposed. The Democrats are trying to educate America about this. But Trump has turned this truth into a lie and called it anti-white racism. He causes hatred and division with every single thing he says and does.

Here is the truth about Trump and military service:

He made up a fake injury to avoid serving in Vietnam. He said regarding John McCain, who was captured and tortured in a North Vietnamese POW camp, “I like people who weren’t captured.” He calls those who died in battle, “losers” and “suckers.” “Vietnam Veterans of America is a non-partisan, war-time veterans’ membership and service organization that does not endorse or support political candidates at any level. “However, we cannot remain silent when a Gold Star family member is being publicly denigrated, ” said John Rowan, National President of Vietnam Veterans of America. “It is especially reprehensible when that individual is seeking to become the commander-in-chief of the Armed Forces of our nation. To lash out and disparage a family whose son gave his life defending this country is both shocking and disgraceful, ” said Rowan. And though Trump may never have spent a day in uniform, his disdain for the sacrifice of this young man and all who have made the ultimate sacrifice in defense of our Constitution is singularly un-American.”
How can Tulsi Gabbard support a man like that? She has served in the military overseas in Iraq. She has grieved the loss of soldiers who gave their all. How can she support a man who is such a coward that he, who never served anyone but himself, is so despicable, he makes fun of the families of fallen soldiers and calls those who die or get captured losers and suckers. He is a national disgrace.

She has a chapter on free speech. Here’s what Trump has done so far to try and eliminate free speech. He banned the AP journalists from the White House because they refused to call the Gulf of Mexico the Gulf of America. He is working to defund PBS and NPR which provide so many services, especially in rural America where they don’t have good internet. From The Conversation: “Trump has expelled established news organisations from the Pentagon, curtailed access to press events for the esteemed Associated Press, and taken control of the White House press pool, sidelining major media outlets.” He’s also used fines and withdrawing funding to punish Universities for their so-called anti-Semitism, but what he did to Columbia University, canceling 400 million of federal contracts, is really because they rejected his land deal decades ago. Trump is going after law firms that had anything to do with the investigations into the crimes he committed. He is fining them and suing them and using his power to coerce them and silence them.

“The legal system, the media and universities are the pillars of US democratic freedoms. The Trump administration’s undermining of these institutions is a blatant attempt to impose an authoritarian rule by bypassing any counterbalance to executive power. And the US Supreme Court has ruled that he is almost entirely immune from prosecution while doing it.”

Tulsi Gabbard is aiding and abetting the demise of democracy in America by supporting Trump in his lies, deceit, corruption, evil. God have mercy on us.

Here are quotes from Alexei Navalny’s wife. Alexei Navalny tried to reveal the truth about Putin and Putin had him poisoned first, then arrested and murdered. All of Russia lives with constant lies and one man and his cronies who steal and rob from the people so they can live lives of royalty and luxury to excess, palaces, villas, yachts, luxury cars, etc.

Alexei Navalny: Patriot, A Memoir

by Alexei Navalny, 2024, translated by Arch Tait with Stephen Dalziel

Memoir written by one brave man who tried to bring truth to Russia in the last 25 years. He was murdered by Putin for his efforts. He was too popular, spreading truth, revealing the lies and corruption of Putin. He loved his country and decided to go back to it after being poisoned with a nerve agent by Putin. He could have stayed away and lived (perhaps), but he had to go back. He was arrested in the airport in Russia in January 2021 and taken from one prison to another for 3 years, until he was murdered in prison in Siberia in 2024. He wrote most of this memoir in the hospital in Germany where he recovered after being poisoned. The last quarter of the memoir are his Instagram posts and his prison diaries, which he managed to smuggle out to his lawyers, when he was allowed to meet with them.

Pudd’nhead Wilson

by Mark Twain, 1893

I got this book from a little free library and finally read the first story, Pudd’nhead Wilson. I loved it so much! It’s a treasure of a story. Pudd’nhead Wilson is actually a very smart, very kind, very wise man, who moves to Dawson City and wants to be a lawyer there, but he crosses a dog owner first thing, a little yapper who would not stop yapping the entire time they tried to have a conversation. He said something like, If I owned half that dog, I’d kill my half, or something like that. He stays even though no one would ever come to his office because of that one comment. He has hobbies and one of them is to take the town-folks’ fingerprints.

This comes in handy when a thief, supposedly a woman, kills the beloved Judge with an Indian knife that was stolen from two twin brothers from Italy. Pudd’nhead Wilson is defending he innocent twins and it doesn’t look good. But the actual thief and murderer, Tom Driscoll, can’t keep his mouth shut and the night before the last day of the trial, goes to harangue Pudd’nhead and gives him exactly what he needed to figure it out. Sure enough, the fingerprints on the knife match Tom Driscoll’s and all is found out. The guilty party is convicted and the innocents are absolved of all guilt, in front of the whole town. It’s a wonderful, intriguing, amazing tale, and I absolutely love Mark Twain!

Each chapter starts with a pithy quote from Pudd’nhead Wilson’s calendar. I love this one: If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principal difference between a dog and a man.

Another: Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear–not absence of fear…

My Favorite: October 12. –The Discovery.–It was wonderful to find America, but it would have been more wonderful to miss it.

interpreter of maladies

stories by Jhumpa Lahiri, 1999

I got this book from a Little Free Library. It is wonderful! It is 9 short stories about East Indians or Bengali immigrants to the United States, or one or two take place in India. She is such an excellent writer! Each story is so different from the others but each one takes you away to a different world. I cared about each character. Keep this book forever! It was wonderful!

Three Men in a Boat: To Say Nothing of the Dog

Jerome K. Jerome, 1889 (born May 2, 1859; died June 14, 1927-68 years old)

This was one of Mom’s Time Reading Program editions. I remember her reading it and saying it was the funniest book she had ever read. I kept it when she moved, and I agree, it is one of the funniest books I’ve ever read! I LOVED IT!!!! Jerome K. Jerome is hilarious!!!

The book is about a river trip up the Thames River, from London to Oxford. He (J.), two of his friends (George and Harris), and his dog, a Fox-Terrier named Montmorency, take a two-week vacation (a fortnight) up the river in a boat. It’s 211 pages of fun! Every single scene, from the gathering of supplies to the final scene in a French restaurant with full stomachs looking out at the rain, is laugh-out-loud funny.

There is a sober moment, when they come upon a dead woman floating in the river, and he tells her story as they come to find it out, with a lot of care and sadness and regret. But mostly it is funny. I especially like his description of work and his attitude toward it in Chapter 15: “It seemed to me that I was doing more than my fair share of the work on this trip, and I was beginning to feel strongly on the subject.

I Want to Trust You, But I Don’t

Moving Forward When You’re Skeptical of Others, Afraid of What God Will Allow, and Doubtful of Your Own Discernment

by Lysa TerKeurst Adams, 2024

Lysa is the president of Proverbs 31 Ministries. She was hurt deeply by her first husband, and by other ministry organizations. This book is about how she got through the pain and learned to trust again. She is now married to a wonderful, trustworthy, godly man named Chaz. Her writing is personal. She is a gift to the world. She is beautiful, inside and out, and so courageous. She is willing to lay bare all the deep, dark places inside of her, and show them to all who want to know. Her purposes are to show that people are not alone in their pain, and that Jesus is there with them, through it all, and they can emerge victorious; stronger and wiser and seeing the beauty of the world, with more joy and peace.

I love one of the stories she tells. It’s about a fallen oak tree she came across on a gentle hike, with a sign posted in front of it: “The Resilient Oak Tree: The storm that felled this tree didn’t stop it from protecting both the forest and island community with its thriving canopy.” The tree had fallen but it didn’t die; it grew new roots and is still living, providing shelter and beauty. She said it was the most beautiful tree in that forest; broken but re-created into a beautiful, living tree, providing shelter and life.

The Mysterious Mr. Quin

by Agatha Christie, 1930, 1958

I adored this book. I got it from a little free library in the neighborhood. I took it to Montana December 2024 when I went there to help Adam and Danette after Eliya was born. It’s a little book so was easy to stuff in my carry-on. Twelve mysteries set in England, the Riviera, and a Greek Isle, all involving an elderly man, Mr. Satterthwaite, and a mysterious Mr. Harley Quin, who shows up unexpectedly whenever humans need a little help, or a death needs to be solved. Each story took me away to a wonderful, rich world.

The last story, though, ends with Mr. Satterthwaite in Mr. Harley Quin’s Lovers Lane, a beautiful lane that ends in a dump. I am not sure about it:

Connecting the Dots: What God is Doing When Life Doesn’t Make Sense

by Joel Malm, 2023

Adam’s book. He loaned it to me when I told him about my greatest fear is that he will be hurt. He read it on his way to Las Vegas in March 2024 for a Christmas Light seminar. His boarding pass was tucked in page 38. Page 38 is about a purposeful life being an adventurous, risky life. “Life is full of danger and threats and scary things that go bump in the night. Nobody is getting out alive. We may feel secure or safe because we’ve reduced our life to a level where we don’t have to face anything we fear–but that security is an illusion. It just means it will eventually show up in your nice, safe little world and shock you.” This is an excellent book! It’s a road map on how to navigate the life of faith. It describes a circular pattern of life and faith, starting with a turning point, then courage, then the Guide (the Holy Spirit), then the decision, the adventure (challenge), the dark cave, the resolution, the new perspective, and lastly, the message. He used his time in Acapulco, Mexico, to demonstrate each of the stages. He was asked by missionary friends to take over their ministry in Acapulco. The ministry was extraordinarily dangerous – drug cartels, corrupt cops, violent gangs – and difficult – no conveniences, everything broken and rotting. But, he got the clear message to do this so he and his wife did. The whole thing felt like an overwhelming failure and disaster. But he realized in retrospect that he grew immensely in his walk with God. The ultimate goal of life is to grow more and more Christ-like in humility and love.

Excellent, exciting, book!

Flash

by Rachel Anne Ridge, 2015

Adored this book! Danette loaned it to me in Montana December 2024. I read it in about 3 days. It was wonderful. True story about the life lessons learned from a donkey that showed up in their driveway one night. Tom and Rachel live in the country in Texas. They have started their own indoor painting business – painting murals in homes. It’s rough and they are exhausted and angry with life and each other. They are coming home one night and a donkey is in their long driveway. They could have just driven around it and ignored it, but Tom gets out and coaxes it step by step into their pasture. They try to find its owner but no one ever claims him. They end up keeping him, caring for him, naming him Flash, loving him.

Rachel learns 11 lessons from Flash.

  1. Remember your name. Know whose you are. (A neighbor insisted on calling ‘Flash,’ ‘Hay-sus’ and it really bothered Rachel until that same neighbor kept pressing for friendship, and Rachel came to love that neighbor.)
  2. Know where to find refuge. True sanctuary is found in God alone.
  3. Run with horses. The pursuit of excellence conquers fear. Flash loved being near the horses in the pasture next door.
  4. Find your passion. Passion leads to purpose. (Flash breaks down fences and any obstacle in his way to mate with a mare next pasture over.)
  5. Be a trailblazer. Persistence makes pathways for grace to follow. (I think this was about the trails that Flash made all throughout his pasture, just plodding along one foot after another.)
  6. Wear your donkey heart on your sleeve. A well-lived life is an authentic life. (This is when her classy, elegant neighbor reveals to Rachel she’s envious of Rachel’s perfect life. Rachel realizes she hasn’t been showing her true self – the messy, chaotic, never quite right life – to this neighbor. She comes clean and then true, deep friendship results.)
  7. Stand where fruit is falling. The secret of abundance is in choosing gratitude. The Texas landscape is drought-ridden and everything is dying, except there is a tree that drops ugly fruit and Flash loves that fruit, and there are lots of them. He stands near that tree to give Rachel the hint to toss the fruit to him.
  8. Be a service animal. You are made to serve in love.
  9. Embrace change. Don’t let fear of the unknown keep you from moving forward.
  10. Make things right with others. Don’t miss your chance to forgive, accept, and love.
  11. Your journey isn’t about fixing donkey problems. It’s about transformation.

Excellent, beautiful, heart-warming book!

The Christmas List

by Richard Paul Evans, 2009

Dee lent me this book to read while in Montana with Adam and Danette in December 2024. It was EXCELLENT! I read it in 2 days. It’s a re-telling of Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol. Set in Utah, the main character is James Kier. He’s a ruthless, rich businessman who uses people, hurts people, screws people. One morning, he wakes up in a lodge in Park City to read his obituary. Apparently, he died the day before in a fiery wreck. He reads the comments on the on-line obituary and discovers how much he is despised. It hurts him deeply. He returns home and, with the help of his loyal secretary, he tries to right the wrongs to a list of 5 people he has hurt deeply. What happens is some very realistic story-telling. What a fast-paced, fun read! Thank you, Dee!

Bitter Lemons

by Lawrence Durrell, 1957

I learned about this book from The Island of Missing Trees book about Cyprus. It’s by Lawrence Durrell, the eldest brother of the Durrell’s in Corfu. I’ve read Gerald Durrell’s books and love them. I liked this one, too. That is one talented family! Lawrence bought an old, charming place in Cyprus and lived there from 1953-1956. The village he lived in is called Bellapaix. He takes us through the early months of living with his friend and his family in Kyrenia, then hiring a Turk businessman, a very shrewd “rogue,” to find him his charming abode in Bellapaix, then hiring locals to refurbish and modernize the place. It is the happy, fun part of the book. He then covers troubled times. The Greeks wanted their independence from Britain and to be united with Greece, called Enosis. But the local Greeks also loved the British people individually. The British Government refused to listen to the Greek Cypriots and that was the beginning of the end. Lawrence saw it all, living with and working with the locals, working for a British news agency his last two years in Cyprus, and even being consulted for his expertise on the local situation. All for naught. It was a tragedy and is a warning to listen to the people.

Natural Hospital Birth: The Best of Both Worlds

by Cynthia Gabriel, 2018

Excellent book about how to go about having a natural childbirth in the hospital. Adam recommended it. Very easy to read. It started out with writing a birth plan, and then went into detail on the stages of labor and what could happen to thwart your plans for a natural childbirth in a hospital. Again, the most important way to prevent the medications and the interventions is to not arrive at the hospital too early, especially if your waters have broken.

I still prefer Susan McCutcheon’s, Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way. This book is a kinder, gentler version of that book. Cynthia Gabriel provides you a way to prevent interventions – “We’d like to wait an hour.” That is a brilliant line. Again, it is best to forgo every single medical intervention in labor! Each one leads to problems and more interventions! Listed in the Appendix, here are the interventions to avoid and how to avoid them. The main reasons our medical establishment pushes these interventions are that either you’ve gone past your due date, or your waters have broken, neither of which is typically a medical emergency:

  1. Induction by Chemicals (prostaglandin gel, then Pitocin by IV). “Almost 40 percent of American women have inductions. Yet about a third of all inductions do not work…Women whose labors are induced are more likely to have C-sections than women who begin labor naturally.” To avoid this, recognize that “going past your due date is not a serious medical reason.” Try to start labor naturally: “long walks, nipple stimulation, sexual intercourse (but not if your waters have broken), acupressure points, herbs such as black or blue cohosh, homeopathic remedies, or, as a last resort, castor oil.” (Also, try eating dates and spicy food.)
  2. Breaking the bag of waters. This can cause infection which will result in needing to do a C-section. Avoid this by saying, “We’d like to wait an hour.” Also, avoid this by trying natural methods of starting labor.
  3. Foley Bulb – if you truly need to be induced, this is the best option because there are no chemicals or hormones involved. However, it sounds like it hurts. Again, going past your due date and your waters broken are the two most common reasons for induction; neither of which is a medical emergency.
  4. Vaginal Examinations – they can cause disappointment because you might not be as far along as you’d hoped. They can cause infection if your waters have broken. You can say, “I’d like to wait an hour.” It sounds like the only time you might really want one of these is in late labor. “…and especially if you have been pushing for a long time…By touching the bones of the baby’s head, your caregiver can determine whether the baby is in a favorable position.”
  5. Electronic Fetal Monitoring – all I can say about this is NO! They screw an electrode into the baby’s head! It requires you to lay flat on your back. It provides way too much information that can be alarming, leading the staff to think there is an emergency when there is actually nothing wrong. It also causes your support people to start watching the machine, rather than you. Ask the hospital staff to use a handheld Doppler or better yet, a fetal stethoscope that does not use ultrasound.
  6. Epidurals – this is a shot of pain killer. This procedure can cause temporary (or permanent) paralysis and/or intense headaches that last for days or weeks. It requires you to lay on your back for the rest of your labor. You may not be able to push effectively so the baby will be delivered by forceps or vacuum. To avoid this, in your birth plan, write, “Please help me achieve the most natural birth possible” and “Please do not offer any pain medication during labor, even if I look like I am in pain.”
  7. Episiotomy – this is the incision they make in your perineum to keep you from tearing. It actually causes worse tears and they take longer to heal than natural tears. Use hot compresses and push slowly or not at all when the baby crowns.
  8. Routine Pitocin after the placenta is delivered. Unfortunately, this is done often without your knowledge “to help the uterus clamp down and stop bleeding.” You may need this if you had a long labor, are low in iron, or previously experienced a hemorrhage after birth. To avoid this, avoid induction with synthetic oxytocin (such as Pitocin), do eat and drink during labor, make sure you are not anemic during the last trimester. However, if you have had a long labor (longer than 24 hours), you may decide you want this intervention.

Into the Uncut Grass

by Trevor Noah, illustrated by Sabina Hahn, 2024

I LOVE Trevor Noah, author of Born a Crime! (Everyone in the U.S.A. should read Born a Crime.) This is his latest book. It’s a children’s book for adults, an adult’s book for children. It’s about a little boy and his teddy bear, Walter, who wake up on a Saturday morning and rebel against the rules (make your bed, brush your teeth, wash your face) and run out the door and go through the gate into the uncut grass. Where they go, what they see, who they talk to, the decisions they make, each page illustrated by Sabina Hahn. I read it very quickly – in less than an hour. It’s about a hundred pages long (there are no page numbers), but some of the pages are illustrations only. Walter, the teddy bear, wants to follow the rules, and then eat the waffles that the little boy’s mom is making in the kitchen (while she sings). The little boy wants to run away – even though he’s hungry, too. It’s a sweet, sweet book.

Building Wealth One House at a Time

by John W. Schaub, 2023, 2016, 2005

Adam recommended this book. Adam took him fishing. See picture above. There is no picture of the author on the back of the book, either. I think he likes to remain anonymous. He’s been buying houses and leasing them out since 1975. He is extremely hard-working, smart, logical, fair. He covers everything a person needs to know to buy houses, lease them, and build wealth, one house at a time.

His advice includes his 10/10/10 rule: buy a house 10% below market price, with no more than 10% down, and with an interest rate below 10%.

He recommends buying single family houses, not apartment buildings or commercial real estate. Buy in neighborhoods with good schools, good lots (not corner lots), with yards that are fenced or can be fenced, with enough room for children and pets, in good repair, with good neighbors. He walks neighborhoods (walks them, doesn’t drive them). He knocks on doors. He asks good questions, and he provides you with those good questions. If a house is not for sale, he can end up buying it because he knows the neighborhood and asks the right questions. He used to own houses in 10 different states but that cost him too much time and money in managing them, so now he only owns houses that are within a 10-minute drive of his office.

He has never borrowed from a bank to buy any of his properties! He talks about how to do that; mostly involving seller-financing. If you find a motivated seller, with a house you want to own and rent, you can make a deal to purchase it without a bank loan. He solves the seller’s problem: maybe they need to move quick for a new job, or they just got divorced, or they are about to be foreclosed on, etc. By learning what their problem is, and solving it, he helps them out and, at the same time, gains a good house in a good neighborhood.

Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth

by Ina May Gaskin, 2003, 2019

Recommended by Adam. This one was not as organized as the Susan McCutcheon book, Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way. Ina May is a midwife. She has been for decades. Her book, Spiritual Midwifery, was first written in 1975 and has been updated 7 times. She started a birthing center in Tennessee called The Farm. Pregnant women were welcomed there to live and work and have their babies naturally. They had very successful outcomes, story after story, even with breech babies and other complications. The book starts with many (49) personal birth stories. There are all types; young, old, easy labor, hard labor, single mothers, married, breech, etc.! I didn’t read them all.

The second part is all of the information and evidence for natural childbirth, given in a very conversational style, but not as organized, nor as forceful or convincing as the Bradley book. The same conclusions are made, though, and that is that our modern medical establishment has botched childbirth, and most of the interventions we do are not necessary and actually do harm. We make women think their bodies are faulty, when in actuality, a women’s body and mind, left to themselves and with the loving care of a knowledgeable midwife or Doula, is more than capable of having a completely natural birth experience. Natural childbirth is immensely safer and better for everyone involved.

The Island of Missing Trees

by Elif Shafak, 2021

Interesting book giving lots of history about the island of Cyprus, including the Civil War that erupted between Greeks and Turks on July 20, 1974. The main characters are Kostas, a young Greek man, and Dephne, a young Turkish woman. They live on the island and fall in love. They meet clandestinely at The Happy Fig, a charming tavern owned by Yusuf and Yiorgos, a Greek and a Turk, forbidden gay couple. A central character is the fig tree that grows in the middle of their tavern. The story is told by the Fig Tree, who is sentient. You learn about what happened to Kostas and Dephne in 1974, how they were separated for 25 years – he in London, she in Cyprus. How they got back together in the early 2000s, and left Cyprus with a twig of the dying Fig Tree, and went to London, planted the fig tree, and were blessed with their daughter, Ada.

It’s a good book, but a bit tedious. There are lots of secrets – people not telling each other things, when they really needed to spill their emotions. Also, not sure I like the idea of a sentient tree. The last chapter, you find out Dephne, who died of an overdose, entered the fig tree. I didn’t like Ada, the daughter. She is 16 when we meet her in class at school, where she has had an uncontrollable screaming session. One of her cruel classmates records it and it goes viral right before the Christmas break, at the same time a huge storm hits London. She’s supposed to be this empath, but she refuses to talk to her dad, Kostas, nor her Aunt Meryem, who arrives during Christmas break from Cyprus. Gradually, finally, they open up and the hurts of the past – mostly coming from the hatred between Greeks and Turks on Cyprus – are talked about.

There are a lot of science lessons relayed by the fig tree: about mosquitoes, mice, honey bees, ants, birds, trees.

I liked reading about the Flora and fauna of Cyprus. The beautiful villas and a hotel enjoyed by the rich and famous – a tropical paradise – all destroyed by the civil war.

One very sad thing they do is that they eat songbirds, catching over a million song birds each year, so cruelly. They put sticky glue on the trees and trap them. How awful! Kostas was a sensitive man and it broke his heart when his own mother was pickling songbirds to sell. He asked her to please stop. She did. I googled to see if the trapping of songbirds on Cyprus was still going on, and it is, as of 2016, unfortunately. They estimate a million and a half birds are trapped and killed every year. The dish is called “Ambelopoulia’ and it is a delicacy. It’s illegal but enforcement is lax. The trapping methods are exactly as she described, nets between Acacia trees, or glue on the branches. So sad!

Interesting book. She mentions Lawrence Durrell and something he wrote about Cyprus called Bitter Lemons. I requested it from the Library – Prospector. Wayne’s British tennis buddy, Richard, visits Cyprus where either his mother or his mother-in-law lives. The British controlled Cyprus in one form or another from 1878 to 1960, when Cyprus gained independence. Now, Britain has overseas territory on two islands near Cyprus: Akrotiri and Dhekelia.

This was the Old Town Library Book Club selection for the night of December 16th.

Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams

by Matthew Walker, PhD, 2017

Incredibly “eye-opening” book about the importance of sleep! Wayne’s tennis buddy, Andrew, recommended it. I wasn’t going to read it – I got it from the Library for Wayne – but I’m so glad I did. Wow! Sleep is so incredibly important all throughout life and our modern world has decimated good sleep, all throughout the life span, and we are reaping the consequences. Every single physical disease, every single mental illness, every single health challenge, and many of our social problems (drowsy driving deaths, addictions) can result from too little sleep. And we just don’t listen. We don’t teach good sleep habits (like we do nutrition and exercise) and the bad habits just get passed on to the next generation. We think sleep is a sign of laziness, but lack of sleep causes laziness, in addition to memory issues, poor learning and poor grades, bad judgment, lack of social skills, infertility, obesity, high blood pressure, heart disease, stroke, cancer, dementia, Alzheimer’s, diabetes, depression, anxiety, suicide, schizophrenia, ADHD, Autism, and on and on. It’s so important to get a good night’s sleep, at least 7 to 8 hours a night as an adult, far more for children and teens.

I read something amazing on almost every single page. This book should be required reading for everyone!

Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way

by Susan McCutcheon, 2017 (1984, May 1996, June 2017)

Adam recommended this book. He listened to it while on the way home from Alaska. He and Danette own a copy of it. It was where he learned about how X-rays were done on fetuses and it took 20 years or so before this completely unnecessary practice was stopped – it was causing children to have leukemia! But because they thought they could find too small pelvises and do C-sections and save the baby – all completely unnecessary – it became common practice before it had even been tested, and once it was common practice, it was extremely difficult to end. “Along came Dr. Alice Stuart in the 1950s. Leukemia and other malignant tumors in young children had increased significantly (by 50 percent) and no one had a clue as to why this had happened. Dr. Stuart looked for anything that might be a common denominator and she found it! By a rate of 2 to 1, the children who died of leukemia had mothers who were X-rayed in labor.”

The author is an experienced birth coach in the Bradley Method – completely natural childbirth. It advocates this because it is the easiest, safest, and ultimately best way to have a baby. I am convinced. Even the IV drip they put in you routinely should not be allowed. Here’s the couple of paragraphs on that:

“After the nurse hooks up an IV, she will often say, “You may notice your contractions slowing down.” Isn’t it just common sense that dripping fluid into an open vein is going to dilute the bloodstream that carries oxygen and nutrients around the body, as well as the hormone the body produces to make the uterus contract? No wonder an estimated 30 to 40 percent of women in labor have so-called uterine inertia or dystocia and then need some artificial hormone added to the IV to force the uterus to contract. Having caused the problem with the intervention of a routine IV, it is necessary to solve it with a drug that has numerous known side effects and risks.”

She advocates a high protein, nutritious diet, and not to worry about gaining weight. She advocates certain exercises to aid in the natural childbirth. She explains about the stages of labor and how it can vary from woman to woman. There are Speedsters and Putterers, and other variations – some where the water breaks before labor, and even then, you don’t fly to a hospital, you wait (sometimes days) for actual labor to start. For first time mothers, she recommends not going to the hospital until contractions are a minute long and 3 minutes apart. Going to the hospital too soon is a sure way to foil your attempt to have a natural childbirth. There are emotional stages of labor – the first is excitement – do not go to the hospital yet. The second is Seriousness and you can go to the hospital if you are definitely in the serious stage and your contractions are a minute long, 3 minutes apart. You measure from its beginning to the peak of its strength. Then you time several of them and take an average because they will not all be the same.

There are 6 needs of the laboring women: Darkness and Solitude, Quiet, Physical Comfort (ice chips or water, back rubs, pillows to maintain perfect sideways position – everything supported in a line from head to foot, a bathroom nearby, being asked to turn over from side to side about every hour), Physical Relaxation (the coaches job to ask her to release tension everywhere), Controlled Breathing (the Lamaze method of breathing is wrong, wrong, wrong!), the Appearance of Sleep and Closed Eyes.

It’s too bad some of the things our medical system has done in regards to childbirth. Just about all of the interventions that routinely occur are not only not necessary, have caused damage (Episiotomies are one example, they actually cause damage and more tears than the possible little tear that would happen maybe without one. If the doctor knows to tell the woman to stop pushing when the baby crowns, so the baby can turn naturally and slip out, there is usually not even a tear).

White Teeth

by Zadie Smith, 2000

In-depth study of London from the eyes of a diverse caste of characters: 1. Bangladeshi immigrants, Samad Iqbal, his wife Alsana, and their twin sons, Millat and Magid. 2. Archie Jones, and his wife, Clara, who is black and the daughter of Hortense, a Jehovah’s witness born in Jamaica. 3. Archie and Clara’s daughter, Irie, the one I loved the most. 4. The Chalfen family, white, educated: Joyce, the mom, a horticulturist; Marcus, the proud dad scientist working on “FutureMouse,” Josh, the oldest son, who becomes cool when Millat and Irie enter his life.

I learned about this book from the British Classics puzzle. It is extremely well-written, and a deep-dive into the thoughts and feelings and antics of lower and middle class immigrant, minority Brits.

I liked it. It took a while to read it. It is a long book, 448 pages. Irie is my favorite character because she just is the way she is. The one time she tries to be something different, she has her beautiful wavy long 1/2 black, 1/2 white hair straightened, but she didn’t tell the stylist she has washed it and the straightener burnt her scalp and her hair. They had to cut it off and attach fake hair. She learned to love herself the way she was – big and beautiful. She adored the twins, Millat and Magid, loved them both. Samad, the dad of the twins, decided to send one of them back to India (Bangladesh) because he didn’t like them becoming so English. He chose Magid, who was a young budding scientist, and he tricked him into going to the airport and then sending him on his way. Samad’s wife, Alsana, didn’t forgive him until Magid comes back, a young man, very atheist, and very much an Englishman, and a scientist. The Chalfen’s, Marcus and Joyce, have 4 sons of their own but take on Irie and Millat as their project when Irie and Millat and Joshua, their son, get caught smoking pot at school. The punishment is for Irie and Millat to go to the Chalfen’s for study sessions several times a week. Joyce falls in love with Millat and he becomes her special project. He’s a hopeless bad boy – then becomes a member of an Islamic Militant Society – KEVIN – Keepers of the Eternal and Victorious Islamic Nation, “We are aware that we have an acronym problem.”

The patriarchs, Samad and Archie, were in WWII together, in a tank. Archie was the driver, Samad was the radio operator. They were very, very young. Archie becomes a paper folder (!) in London, Samad becomes a waiter in an Indian restaurant. Samad married a younger woman, Alsana, and tells Archie that is the key to happiness. Archie meets Clara at a New Year’s Eve party, the morning after, and she is much younger than him and black. He’s at the top of the stairs and she is sitting on the bottom step. She looks up and he looks down from the heights. She marries him. Neither marriage is happy, but they stay together. Clara has Irie, and Alsana has the beautiful twins, Magid and Millat. The story is mainly about these three children growing up in London.

Zadie Smith is an incredible writer. She doesn’t mind giving lots of interesting detail. She is laugh out loud funny in spots. She can really create people and places you can see and feel. Alsana has a niece who is a lesbian and Alsana calls her “Niece-of-shame” always and to her face, and Niece-of-shame just loves her back and stays always and forever in her life. Just one example.

Cheap Land Colorado

by Ted Conover, 2022

This is our second book for Old Town Book Club 2024-2025, to be discussed on November 4th. Such a readable book! It’s about the people who live on raw land in the San Luis Valley of Colorado. He is an investigative journalist, grew up in Denver but now lives in New York City. It is after the 2016 election and Trump has been elected. He wants to discover more about the people who live out of the norm, away from it all. He volunteers with La Puente (“the bridge”), which is an organization to help the poor in Alamosa. He meets many, many off-gridders and we get intimate with them. His writing style is so smooth and easy, yet detailed. We learn all about these people. There are sexual predators, alcoholics, meth-heads, unhealthy obese smokers. Many are Trump supporters. Almost all love guns. But he is non-judgmental. He lives in a trailer alongside a family with 4 daughters who own lots of animals. The mom and dad, Stacy and Frank, have had rough lives but are making it on the prairie as best they can. Neither graduated from high school. Stacy is home-schooling the 4 girls. They are happy, active girls. Almost all the people on the prairie grow marijuana and smoke it. There is animosity between the Costilla County code enforcers (Hispanic) and those who live on the flats (mostly poor whites). The code enforcers will give tickets for not having a septic system and give them 2 weeks to get one or they have to leave or face steep fines. A septic system costs $19,000 and it takes a year sometimes to get one. There are some established homesteads but most are derelict trailers running generators or solar powered or wind-powered. The winds and the cold are brutal. The author falls in love the San Luis Valley and buys his own place and builds a fence to keep the cows out.

Very good book – really takes you into the lives of the people who choose to live out there. I don’t like them at all. They believe bullshit, they support Trump, they are unhealthy and ignorant. But Ted Conover is completely unbiased in his writing – he just gives the details in very smooth and picturesque and flowing words. Good book!